Wednesday

During Date Avoid Talking About This Stuff




Taboo Subjects for the First Date

Avoid the X Stuff

If you talk about your x spouse mate, you will do so at your own peril. Your date will instantly classify you as a baboon and drop your carcass off at the nearest recycling bin.

Don't Talk just to Talk

Babbling just to fill the vacant space in the conversation, should also be avoided. Sometimes just looking at your prey (and I use this word in the kindest of ways) can convey more information then just words. Looking at someone and consuming their presence, is a very faltering thing. Enough babble let’s get back on point.

Don't Offer Requirements

It’s best to avoid, telling your date, your requirements for a love partner. This kind of dialog will not produce a positive climate for moving closer to each other.

Don't Talk about Yourself

Please and I say this with the utmost force, avoid talking about yourself. I say this, because there really is, no you at this juncture of the dating process. Their only concern at this point is how they feel. Let me, put this another way; their only thinking at this juncture, is all about their desires, hopes and dreams. Now don’t get mad, about what I’m saying. I’m just giving the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Right now, you are both completely into yourselves. So whether you have faith in what I’m saying or not, don’t talk about yourself. If you do, you will be the only person listening. If you persist your dating partner, will plot a plan, to exit your company.

Avoid Sex Encounter Talk

Revealing your sex history will not impress your dating companion. Be wise and smack yourself if thoughts like this creep into your mind. In this day of aids, etc. no one in their right mind would consider having sex with you. Your words would brand you, a high-risk sex partner. As TV Phil would say, how would that work out for you?

Avoid Controversial Subjects

It’s a good rule of thumb to avoid topics like, abortion, religion and etc. These types of topics are too serious for dating conversation. If you talk about this stuff and you’re not of the same mind, you will instantly peg each other as not compatible with each other. Needless to say, this would instantly kill any opportunity for creating a love connection. Its better to let serious subjects arise after developing a good mate connection. When we develop a better connection we are more inclined to over look differences with each other.

Keep It Simple

Hopefully you’re getting my drift concerning the first date. Keep the first date simple and keep serious matters for a later date. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.


Don L. Terrill

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