Wednesday

Wait for Love Its Worth It.




Love Versus Rejection

The choice is yours to make. Yes rejection hurts. You read and here the stories everyday of those who have fallen prey to the forces of rejection. But the alternative is unthinkable. I can't imagine a life without love. For me it's the number one reason, I decide to breath every day. I don't just like love, I live to love. If I lost my love, I would spend the rest of my life trying to find it. Love is not just important to me. It is everything to me. So rejection to me would merely be a bump in the road. It would merely be a mountain to climb and would not impede, that which I sought to find.

What Glitters isn't always Gold

I like many, sought love, but was blinded by a replica. It seemed like the real thing, but it wasn't. I stand naked before those who judge people who get divorced. Yes both my first wife and I approached our union with optimistic anticipation. Our endeavor failed because that which bonded us together, wasn't really love. Were not given the true knowledge of love, at birth. Love is something that is learned, thru example, trial and error.

The Best of Intentions isnt always Love

I mention my divorce only as example of how the best of intentions, can sour by poor preparation and failing to recognize, what true love, really feels like.

Wait for the Right Person

My second marriage has proved to be just the opposite. This time I waited for the right person, to come along. Since we had both been married before, we entered this marriage with our eyes opened and our feelings highly focused on feelings of love. Since our feelings for each other were in harmony, we moved on to the final stage of our commitment to marriage. We discussed and handled all major issues, which most couple leave to handle after they get married. We left no stone unturned. We started our second marriage fifteen years ago and our love remains as strong, as it was then.

Rejection is Better then a Divorce

So don't take rejection personally. Just because someone doesn't connect with you, doesn't mean you're a bad person. It just means the magic wasn't there, so shake it off like a bad dream and continue to hammer the numbers game.

Here's the deal, if you don't do the math, you would reap the rewards. So finding love is a lot like going thru a tunnel and there is a light at the other end.

So Tunnel on and Beam in the Light of Greatness.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.


The Love Guru

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