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Women Pickup Secrets Revealed
by Joseph Matthews
Feeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!
Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!
You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!
First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T have to be "male model" good looking.
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you're insecure about your looks, don't sweat it! There's still hope.
Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)
Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn't that right?
Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.
The secret is to have a great personality - this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!
In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.
Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you'll get better the more times you do it!
You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.
Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!
When you're going out to pick up women and gain experience, it's important to look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)
Try and dress nicely - wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you. If you're hopeless when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.
It's true that you don't need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn't you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there's steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.
This structure is as follows:
Find the girl.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 10:31 AM