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7 Ways to Know if She Feels the Same Way


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7 Ways to Know if She Feels the Same Way
By Cucan Pemo (c)

You're crazy about your girlfriend and you just want to scream from the rooftops how much you adore this woman in your life. But you're scared – and I completely understand.

After being burned too many times by women who I thought felt the same way that I did, I finally learned that there are seven ways to tell if your girlfriend is crazy about you too. It makes professing your love for her a lot less nerve wracking – because you know what she's going to say in return.

1.) She Always Wants to Be With You

A woman who wants to make plans with you is a woman who cares about you. The fact of the matter is that you want to be with her, so if she feels the same, she's going to want to be with you more often too. She might call you up to see if you want to do things on the weekend or she might plan out dates for weeks in advance – all because she wants to make sure that you are going to make the time for her too.

2.) She Wants to Introduce You to Others

When a woman wants you to meet her parents or her friends, you know she's into you. She's proud of you and she wants everyone to know it. While you might be nervous to meet these special people in her life, chances are good that she's already praised you in front of them, so you have nothing to worry about.

If she wants to introduce you to her friends, you're someone especially important in her life – her friends are her final judges in the competition for her heart.

3.) She Always Looks Nice

A woman who takes the time to always look nice around you is a woman who cares about you. While it's true that as a relationship progresses, the woman might spend less time on her appearance, little things that show she still cares what you think will remain.

For example, she might always wearing earrings around you or a perfume that you said you liked. All of these little touches add up to a woman who cares.

4.) She Remembers Your Birthday and Other Special Days

If she remembers your birthday and other special days, she cares about you and wants you to see that. Even if she doesn't get you a gift or she doesn't actually do something big, the fact that she remembers to tell you "Happy Birthday" or something similar means that she needed to remember this the whole day and she planned on telling you for the past few days before.

5.) She Smiles When You Walk into the Room

Her smile can be all the answer that you need to any questions of how she might feel about you. If she instantly smiles when she sees you, it's because she's already been thinking about you and to see you, that's only made her day better.

6.) She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even the Bad Ones

While you don’t necessarily want to be with a woman who mocks you, a woman who is willing to let your dumb jokes slide is a keeper. If she's trying to make an effort to laugh at you and to be interested in what you have to say, she's something that you want to be with – and she really wants to be with you.

However, you don't necessarily want to be with someone who things EVERYTHING you say is funny because then she might just be mocking you. You can tell if she's really happy to be around you by the skin around her eyes – if it crinkles when she smiles or laughs, she's genuinely happy. And if not, she's either had a lot of Botox or she's faking it.

7.) She Tells You

Women who tell you that they like you are the ones that are the easiest to read. You might want to simply ask straight up whether she likes you or not. And she's more than likely going to answer you. Or a woman who begins to compliment you all the time or begins to say that she likes, and then she says something else besides 'you,' is trying to say that she likes you, but she's uncomfortable or nervous. Simply press her to finish her sentence and you'll be happy with what you hear.

Most women are pretty clear when they like you, but just in case they're not, watch out for these signs and you can be sure that she feels the same way you do. And if you're not seeing these signs, that's not necessary a reason to dump her, but you might want to start asking if she'll ever be happy with you – for both of your sakes.

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