Waiting for that Special Person to Tap You on the Shoulder?
Dating But Still Waiting?
So what are you waiting for? Do you expect that special person to just fall down from the sky? Its kind of like waiting for a bus that doesn’t pick people from your location. We as human beings have great expectations but don’t seem to want to do anything to make them happen. Its like love will find me and I don’t have to do anything to make it happen. Someone once said we go to bed without making any effort that day and expect tomorrow to be different from today. Yes some people just stand still and the universe showers all things on them, but that isn’t the norm for the rest of us. If you’re the norm like I am you better start working for what you want because that’s the way things really change in life. Standing on the corner may get you the bus but then you have to get on the bus for it to take you somewhere. Finding someone is all about getting on the bus. Progress requires action and action doesn’t as a rule happen by itself. So if you are looking for someone get off you’re duff and start looking. Even the bible requires action here’s a quote to prove my point. Ask and you shall receive seek and you shall find knock and the door will be opened unto you. See if you don’t believe me take the words from the book of all books. So how many doors have you opened lately?
Your Invisible to Potential Dates
My oldest son who is the knower of all things. I know this because he tells me he is. Quotes himself or someone else by saying there is no you. What he is saying is that to the rest of the world there is no you. Everyone else is concerned about their lives and don’t really focus much attention on you. So don’t be shy because no one is watching you. Go ahead and make an ass out of yourself. So my theory is this, if making an ass of myself helps me, then that is a good thing and Martha would back up my thinking. God knows Martha did.
Quote From Dr. Phil
So once again what are you waiting for? Dr. Phil would say how’s that working out for you? Unless your one of the lucky ones, it isn’t.
Hot or Cold
Have you every heard the term you can take a horse to water but you cant make him drink. If you find yourself going to the well but not drinking maybe you should try a faucet. At least from there you can have two choices hot or cold.
Because Your Afraid I'm Alone
If you don’t face your fears and try you may spend the rest of your life alone. I once saw a picture of a girl poorly dressed and huddled in a burned out building. The wording under the picture said because your afraid, I’m alone. I personally feel that there are an infinite number of mates everywhere for each of us. So know matter where you are, there are life mates for you, so stop waiting and get on the bus; Then sit next to someone and just start talking. And keep getting on buses till someone strikes your fancy and the fancy is mutual. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.
Don L. Terrill
photo by stefg
Posted by Don L. Terrill at 7:10 AM