A Good Talker Is a Date Finder

Dating Requires Talking

How are your speaking skills? Do you generally talk to someone if they are close to you? Or are you one of those people who hardly talk to anyone. If you’re a talker you’ll probably have more luck connecting with people. Talking goes hand and hand with meeting people and meeting people leads to dating and dating if your interested will lead to a lasting relationship.

Practice Promotes Dating Success

I get up every day and like most people go places and do things. When I get close to people I talk, look in their eyes and smile. Most people respond in kind. It’s amazing how easy it is to make that simple connection. True its not finding a date but it is necessary to start the ball rolling. You never know when you’re going to turn a connection into a date. In general I think most people like to talk and talking is good for you. I personally think it’s emotionally good for you. Whether you realize it or not talking is the beginning road to being ok in life. Casual conversation helps us resolve issues in our life. It helps bring clarity to life and in general it just makes us feel better and feeling better is what life is all about.

Talking Negative Doesn't Help Dating

Like a coin talking has two sides on one side it helps, on the other it’s a negative thing. I have an acquaintance who loves to talk and he is a really nice person, but he seldom gets off the down side of life. His words explain his life and how badly it is going. I don’t think he realizes the harm he is doing himself by being that way. I hope he finds his joy and sticks to it. The point I’m trying to make is that people, as a rule would rather be up beat and hear kind words that make them feel better.

Dating Requires Ringing the Bell

Words are like keys they open things. In dating words open doors that in time lead to happiness, that’s of course, if you’re a patient person and keep trying. If you don’t try and I can almost predict the dating success your going to have, does the word zero ring any bells for you. My parents God rest their souls used to own an amusement park and one of the concessions they had was a bell ringing game, which required a person to use a large wooden hammer to pound a device which propelled an object upward on a metal rail. If hit hard enough the object would make the bell ring, which was located on the top of the rail. This was a way to impress your girl friend with your manly browses or something like that. Once again the point I'm trying to make is that if you don’t talk you wont ring the bell and finding someone will be harder to do.

The Word Hey May get You a Date

No matter where you are or what you’re doing you can always finding something around you to talk about. Yesterday we were at McDonalds and in walked twin girls probably two years old they were adorable. I couldn’t help but say to the Mother I bet you’re the proudest Mother ever. Her response was to smile and that is what I call talking.

Being Special Draws Special Dates

Think of talking as the road to a better life for yourself and someone else. So take it from someone who had to learn how to talk to others. Talking will help you help yourself and that if you desire it will lead to the most special thing on the face of the earth and that is someone who is special and thinks you are special. So talk on and be special and maybe two specials will have a Special Event. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill

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