Our You Really Looking?

Finding Requires Looking

Finding the right person for you is simple and very easy to do. It’s just a matter of meeting people and then selecting the person that works for you. That doesn’t seem hard does it? Actually when you think about it, its very simple, it just requires you to meet people. Now before you go into I can’t do that or I’ve tried but it hasn’t worked lets just explore how this process can be achieved without too much emotional pain to you.

Theres Millions Looking for You

First of all there’s an adequate number of people suitable to be the love of you life. This is not like looking for a needle in the hay sack. There are numerous people in your area of influence that would meet your love requirements. The only thing you have to do is meet them and then observe how you feel. If you both feel extreme emotional wellness then love is knocking and you need only to open the door. Remember you don’t make love, love just finds you.

Remove the Clutter

Now here’s the fine print stuff. First are you ok? Because if your not then your love feelings will have difficulty working properly. Love finds love when the path to each other isn’t cluttered with issues or excess baggage. Electricity works, as it should when all connections are properly made so the current can move freely without meeting too much resistance. So here’s the deal if you’re not ok with yourself then resistance is created and love has a hard time finding you and you it. So lets get back to the question, are you ok? Now if you answer is no, then you need to find your harmony by creating a life style that promotes emotional wellness, which brings you happiness. This state of being is achieved by removing your emotional pain. The following method worked well for me.

A Broom Sweeps Clean

First create a list of all the things that are bothering you in your life. Here are a couple items that were on my list.

1. I was in a relationship that wasn’t working for me or the person I was with. I think we stayed together because it was better then being alone.
2. I was in a partnership that was a total disaster for me emotionally and financially.
3. Dealing with certain family members was a huge frustration for me

Ask Three Questions of Each Concern

Can I do something that will remove this item from my life?
2. If I cant remove it, is there something I can do to remove some of the pain it causing me?
3. Have I done all I can to this item so I can feel better in my life? If yes put this item on a calendar and review in a month for further consideration

Item 1. It was solved by talking with her and we both agreed that things weren’t working out for us and we jointly agreed to part company on good terms

Item 2. I sold my partnership for a pittance of what it was worth. Yes it cost me money but it gave me my sanity back.

Item 3. I decided that my family members had the right to run their life the way they wanted to. That produced results that work out for all of us.

You and you alone know if you’re emotionally ok. If your not then following my plan or create your own. But do something; because love is like a beautiful flower, it requires fertilizer, water and sun light to grow properly. So like the flower, love grows by your being ok.

Love Will Seek You Out

So if you’re ok and your willing to meet people love will find you. It’s just a matter of time, keep meeting people and don’t exclude anyone, because love may come in a package you don’t recognize. So allow yourself the opportunity to meet and talk to people. And when you least expect it, love will tap on your shoulder and the right person will connect with you and love will be your reward for being patient. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill

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