Her Mail Box Was His Strategy

I Inquired He Talked

I met Fred while having my brakes checked for replacement. We enjoyed each others company for over an hour.

As usual I quizzed him about his status and he replied single but connecting up is looking better every day. At this point I told him I write articles for numerous websites and one of my most popular ones is called Dating Play Book Com. And to my joy he said this is the website that prompted him to do something rather then just waiting for luck to kick in.

He Let the Gas Pedal Do His Talking

He said he was so pumped to do something after reading some of my articles that he just jumped in his car and sat there until a thought came into his thinking. He then backed out of the driveway and promptly ran into his neighbor’s mailbox. Why? Because for years he had often thought of knocking on her door in the hope of inviting her to dine with him while enjoying the wellness of a good tasting wine. But until now his courage was never strong enough to force his feet to do his bidding and make it happen.

Luckily Fred’s car was of a late vintage and had a bumper on it. His action didn’t hurt his car but did break the base of the mailbox.

He Knocked & the Door Opened

Fred immediately exited the car and stood before her door and knocked. The door opened and he proclaimed himself guilty. They both talked while walking to and back from the scene of the accident. He called her three times after that and each call was about the replacement mailbox and the third call gave him the real courage he needed. He said how about having dinner with me and we can discuss the mailbox? She without hesitation agreed.

At this point the repair person came to the waiting area and informed me my car was ready. While paying the bill and just before leaving I asked Fred how things were going. His reply was things are looking great. I responded good for you and smiled.

I can’t tell you what a high it always is for me to hear that my words are bringing people together. So how about you? Now I’m not suggesting a run in with your neighbors mailbox, but then again it did work and you can’t argue with that thinking.

So go ahead and make your move and here’s hoping a connection works out for you.

Don L. Terrill

photo by jessicafm


Stop & Think Before You Act

Chemical Process

I honestly believe there is a chemical process that goes on in our brain that controls are ability to think straight during the mating ritual. This chemical in essence blind sides us and helps perpetuate the human race. This over whelming desire should be considered and checked with preventive measures so that it doesn’t over ride our common sense and good judgment.

Love & Perpetuation are Two Different Things

Facing reality on this issue will help prevent one of life’s biggest pitfalls. No matter what your thoughts are on the subject ignoring same wont likely produce the results your hoping for. Putting our heads in the ground like a long necked animal has not worked in the past and is not likely to work in the future. Some how every person must face this situation prior to the probability of it happening and select a course of action. Keeping a tight focus on the ramifications of our future actions will certainly give us thoughts to ponder.

Get the Love Thing First

We as human beings must realize that this process has noting to do with the mating of two human hearts. To think otherwise is the thinking of a closed mind. So seeing it for what it is and acting accordingly is the thinking of an open mind. This article is not about the right and wrongness of this subject matter, it’s about the reality of life and the choices we have available to us.

My Decision not Ours

For me this reality was a no brainier and was my decision and my decision alone to make. I chose to eliminate my ability to increase the density of our planet. This decision was not greeted with approval from my dating partner. I was told I should have confided with her first before making such a mind-altering choice. I hurt because she left but stand steadfast behind my decision. This is my body and I am the sole person who will consider whether I do or don’t on this train of thinking.

Think Hard First

How you approach this is up to you and the results there of will be your responsibility to face and deal with. Learning from ourselves and viewing the results of others is a possible way to help conclude decisions you might want to make in your life. On this subject every fiber of your brain should be used to understand and evaluate what this subject matter is all about.


Remember this above all things. You are the most special person on the face of the earth and there is only one of you in the entire universe. That makes you priceless and cant be replaced. Think this thought when you confront the chemical process. It might give you the insight to stop and pause for a moment and maybe this moment will help you see the value of what your doing and act accordingly.

Dating is Hard

But don't confuse sex and love as the same thing, because it isn't. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill

photo by merfam


May We Join You?

Thirty & Not Happy

Mary had just turned thirty and was feeling the weight of that and two children under the age of five. Her first and only husband didn’t even make the birth of her second child. He said as he was exiting their marriage because he couldn’t take the pressure any more.

Now Mary with the assistance of her parents and other loyal family members was making ends meet. And today was family day and that meant the Zoo was going to be their agenda.

Mary has tried dating numerous times and found the experience not very productive. She told me that dating before marriage was an enjoyable activity for her. But now that her life has changed dating didn’t seem to fit that puzzle which resembles her life.

But like things in life, life was going to throw her a slow ball and hitting a home was going to be a changing force in her life.

They purchased hot dogs, chips and cokes and found comfort eating on a slightly used wooden bench, which contained a heart carved in the center of the eating area. The sun was slightly peering thru the adjoining trees and a slight breeze was in the air.

Mary Did Something

One bench over was a man sitting alone and didn’t seem to be having a good time. Mary totally out of character for her approached the man and said may we join you? The man speechless for a moment nodded yes and the girls shared part of their spoils with him. In a matter of minutes they were conversing like they had know each other all their life. Mary told me she didn’t know why she approached the man but something compelled her to do so.

Months have passed now and there a family in every sense of the word. John proposed Mary accepted and marriage is being discussed and the children can’t get enough time with him.

Once again action on someone’s part brought four souls together and it looks like happiness is destined to be their future. So do something and take your turn at getting the brass ring on the Merry Go Round. And then just sit back and enjoy the wellness that love provides.

Don L. Terrill

photo by wohnai