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Getting Your Ex to Return Your Call
by TW (T Dub) Jackson
Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy. If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?", "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense? Have a PLAN!
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