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Pick Up Lines To Start A Conversation
by Joseph Matthews
Some pick up lines are just terrible.
For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:
"Are you a parking ticket? Because you're a little fine!"
"Your name must be Gillet, because you're the best a man can get."
"I lost my number, can I have yours?"
Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.
Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.
However, this is not correct.
A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.
The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.
That is all.
After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.
Remember, if you do not begin a conversation, you cannot do much more.
You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.
Good pick up lines help you do this.
Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.
That is why it's important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can't be original, you need something to help you take action!
But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:
"I know you from somewhere, don't I?"
This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.
Other unimpressive pick up lines include complimenting a woman on her clothing, asking for directions and telling her she looks like a movie star.
Why is this?
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Avoid pick up lines that have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to think about her reply, while inducing an emotional reaction, which encourages her to continue talking with you.
So how do you engage a girl?
Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.
Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.
Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid's zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.
This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
"Do you think there's something to astrology?" (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)
"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)
"Are you fond of children? You seem very nurturing."
I could go on, but you should get the idea.
The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.
This is how you begin conversations.
At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 1:53 PM