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"Make a Date Unforgettable”
By Giuseppe Notte
You're on your first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms are sweaty, and you're trying damn hard to come up with something funny to say, only to lapse into long silences in your conversation. She stands up after an hour and says, “Sorry, but it's getting late. I have to go home to feed my dog.” Before you can say something, she's already gone.
I'm sure the above situation has happened in your worst nightmares. The most crucial part of your interactions with women and the key to your success is the first date. If you do it well, it will be easy to get down and dirty quickly.
Most guys do something boring on the first date. Going to a movie, sitting in a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant — the list is endless. It's easy to use this to your advantage, though: By using a little imagination, you'll be way ahead of the crowd.
When I go out with a woman, I take her on an adventure date. This word has multiple meanings, as you will see. We do something exciting and romantic at the same time. Something that brings us as close as we can possibly get on a first date.
Let's look at an example:
A friend of mine takes his girls on an exciting outing. They visit one of the local sightseeing locations and end up at an abandoned ruin of a castle. By then it's usually getting dark — don't worry, though, my friend is there to hug and protect our just-a-little-bit frightened girl. :)
We have a hill in my city with a castle and some monuments on the top. There is a tunnel crossing the hill. The tunnel ends at a bridge that is illuminated at night, creating a wonderful view.
Usually, I take my date on a short walk among the monuments. As it gets dark, we go on a tiny road down the hill that leads us to a place that only a few people know about: the top of the tunnel. And below us is the entire city — a wonderful and romantic sight. This is the point where I usually go in for the first kiss.
Don't think that you need special places or monuments for adventure dates. You can even do them indoors:
When the weather doesn't allow going outside, I bring my date to the local shopping mall. We sit in a cafe and talk a bit. Then I stand up and invite her for a walk around. We visit a few stores while shopping for some clothes for me. Then we go bowling or go to the local bookstore, where we have fun laughing at the various love and sex advice books together.
The above are just examples. It's easy to come up with your own ideas. All you need is a little imagination and a little knowledge of your city. Check out a local city guide paper for some examples or ask a friend who knows.
The key to successful adventure dates is not in the adventure itself, but in sharing activities with the girl. If you sit in a cafe and stay there for four hours, it will be nothing more than a conventional date. But if you sit in a cafe, then visit other places together as well, she will lose her sense of time and feel as if you've known each other for a while. In that state, it's much easier to go in for the first kiss and even more.
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 12:51 PM
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No-No's In Your Relationship with A Woman
By Cucan Pemo
There are things that women want men to know but do not tell them. This is going to mean the difference between a good relationship and a bad one. If men could only know about these things that are big no-nos and knew what women wanted, they would be able to have happier relationships with the woman in their life.
Giving Respect is as Important as Getting It
One thing is respect. Women want to have respect. When it comes to respecting women, some men are not so good at it. This may end up resulting in them losing out in the relationship. It is important to show respect to a woman that you are involved with or any woman for that matter. Give them an opportunity to see that you can be a good guy and that you can respect what they believe and let them have their own feelings about things.
Respect is going to be shown through actions. You can do nice things for a woman like opening up the door, giving up your seat or talking to her differently with passion and concern. It is not acceptable to just fake some charm on a first date. You need to be real and up front about how you are going to be in the relationship on a day-to-day basis.
Being Kind to the World
Being kind is another secret that most men do not know that women want. Women want their man to be kind to everyone. They want them to nice to everyone that they meet to some degree. Treating others nicely will mean that they are kind and are going to give the same type of treatment that they deserve and expect from everyone else. Kindness can go a long way to a women’s heart and it should be something that men think about.
Having Accountability for Actions
Women want men to have accountability. They wan to make sure that men are going to take the responsibility for the things that they have done. This can mean anything from the smallest problem to bigger life changing events that happen in their life. Women want to make sure that they are with a man that is going to be a stand-up guy and do what they are supposed to do.
One no no that women hate is a man that does not love her family. Women want to have a man that is going to love their family and take on the pressures of family life in a good way. This means their parents, brothers, sisters and children all the same. They need to know that they can rely on their husbands or boyfriends to do what is needed of them. Most women need someone that they can trust and whom they know is going to be there for them when they are most in need.
Being Safe and Secure
Women want to also feel safe with their men. They want to know that they have nothing to worry about and that they are in good hands when they are with them. Having the feeling of security is going to mean all the difference when a woman is with their man. They want to be secure not only with their man but they also want to know that their man is going to be there to protect them when they need it the most.
Women need to make sure that their man is taking their relationship seriously. They want to know that their man is going to be there for them no matter what and they want to make sure that they are for real in the partnership. Try not to joke around all the time and laugh about things in the relationship as this is going to insult some women and make them feel low. Women want their men to be committed and serious about what is going on in the relationship just as they do.
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 1:18 PM