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The First Step To Becoming Successful With Women
By Simon Heong
The first step to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply master.
And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to anyone AS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll subconciously be improving your social conversational skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking to people.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment.
Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the guys - especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.
Use them as practice.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you'll be better off with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with women at the moment.
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then you can start moving forward and try talking to the girls instead.
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY,by the very end of the month, your conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step is for you to TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around withany girl you choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shoppingmall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a woman -- a beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accomodating, friendly & 'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE waythat most 'alpha males' should be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project that vibe that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at all!
It's just your mind playing silly 'ol tricks on ya, that's it.
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she's so accustomed to all along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff...
Think about it -- then go out and DO it.
You'll SEE the difference right away.
And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 11:29 AM