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Picking Up Women More Effectively
By Simon Heong
Here's the mindset you should have if you really want to be successful when it comes to dating and meeting women.
Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!
It's not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their life, often times they're actually lying to themselves -- without them even realizing it!
In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able be with as many women as possible in your lifetime - the nice guy route will get you nowhere and you'll end up getting nothing but rejections.
I'm not going to go into the details on the 'why' part of it because most of you might have already know about it.
Just in case you still don't know why, you can read all about it here in my "28 SureFire Ways To Instant Dating Success! Handbook...
But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women, especially attractive ones can act rather 'bitchy' and rude sometimes and how you can effectively pick up one - with ease.
First of all, you have to understand that attractive women, they get 'hit on' one way or another at least 10 times a day everyday - consistently.
Now at first it may all seem happy and nice with them receiving all the attention from the guys, and sure they can be all cutesy and polite to them whenever they're being approached but after a while, it all tends to get rather irritating and annoying - merely because they're hearing the same ol' lines, howlings and perv stares over and over again.
Exact words from a woman's mouth - not mine.
So what they do about it?
Well in order for them to 'save time', they would then be 'forced' to be more 'to the point' or as we like to call it 'bitchy' to the guys that approach them.
Why must they be so mean?
Simply because they HAVE to.
You see, if they weren't mean enough, guys who are usually thick-skinned will not get the point and they'll keep on pursuing UNTIL she says a firm no.
How do I know this? Well, to be honest with you, it was merely by chance. I didn't get any of it at first until I started to really mix with women.
Sometimes, it's really good to have close girl friends because you might learn a LOT from them. I now begin to see it all from THEIR perspective now...
How to approach a woman?
Now, I've noticed that most guys (the majority of them actually), whenever they approach a woman, they always start off by saying something like 'Hi there, you're gorgeous, oh by the way, my name's John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you, bla bla bla..."
Heard of such a line before?
Or probably something along these lines?
Now, think about it. If you're a girl and you get asked the same question about 5-10 times a day, do you think that there's a high chance that you'll get immune to it?
Of course you would!
And I'm not guessing here because I had a girl friend who once told me the same thing that I'm telling you now!
It's just too 'typical' for them to receive such lame, everyday 'pick up' lines.
Best thing is, do you know instead what they would rather hear?
Go up to her, and just give her a funny compliment on something she LEAST expects to get a compliment on (NEVER compliment her looks, she's immune to that, remember?), you can compliment on her funky hairstyle, her heels, her big ears -- anything.
Just as long as its something she LEAST expects to hear from a guy.
Using humour is always good in picking up women. Humor added with a bit of spunk, along with a spot-on sarcastic tone and body language will definitely seal the deal for you -- and get her interested.
Think about it.
This works. :-)
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Posted by Jessica Watts at 8:27 PM